A marriage of two

A marriage of two is for love that is true A marriage of two is always something new A marriage of two happens sometimes out of the blue A marriage of two is worth it when its due A marriage of two is a marriage of trust Many can find themselves lost It can be an expensive cost They are only very few who have a clue of when love accrues A marriage of two can be bad A marriage of two can be sad You should only be glad if A marriage of two is for love that is true

 

 

yeah! its right!

There goes again. Your "sweet boyfriend" is talking to another hot female. They're laughing together, looking perfectly happy in each other's company. Then, you see her reach over and squeeze his arm affectionately. That's it. You lose your controls and slap the girl silly....

It's normal for women to feel jealous every now and then, but when it gets out of control, and you turn into a hideous green-eyed monster, that's when it becomes frightening. Jealousy is a sign that you don't trust your partner as much as you should. It doesn't just wreck your self-confidence, but it can also destroy your perfect relationship. Even the sweetest and most loyal partner can be driven away by constant jealousy attacks.

You don't have to become a jealous, overbearing monster all the time. There are ways to get rid of this nasty emotion. You just need to remember several important tips to banish that green monster forever.

Here are some tips to help you overcome jealous

Stop Comparing yourself to persons in same level to you.

It's common for people to compare themselves to others, and that includes you. You always manage to see what others have that you don't.

You keep thinking that he loved her more than he loves you, and you'll never be the kind of woman she is. Soon, a false sense of self-worth builds up, and you feel yourself becoming more and more insecure. Before you know it, you're throwing snide, jealous remarks at your partner.

Remember, everyone is different and unique. Don't think about things you're missing, but what you do have. You've got your own good and bad qualities, accomplishments, charms and intelligence. You've got exemplary attributes no one (not even the other person you're jealous over) has.

Know The Facts

It's very important to keep an open communication with your partner, to keep your relationship strong. When you start feeling doubt, don't be afraid to ask questions. It's your right to hear it straight from his mouth, so you'll feel better. Know the facts. Of course, it doesn't mean you have to grill your partner with questions or start spying or snooping around. Just ask questions in a calm manner, and let him ask his own questions too. You'll both realize that knowing everything about situations helps squash jealousy.

Draw The Line

Your boyfriend's phone book is filled with names and numbers of women friends you don't know. He's very friendly to other girls while you're out clubbing, even when you're with him. He also talks and goes to lunch with his female coworker. All of these are done with friendly intentions, but soon enough, they start to bug you, and you become suspicious. Eventually, the jealous feelings all burst out.

Think Positive

Jealousy is annoying, but it might be able to have a positive effect on you. All you have to do is look at the negative emotions jealousy brings and look at it in a positive light. Let it motivate you.

It's not bad to feel jealous once in a while, but when this annoying feeling often overtakes you, then it's time you do something about it, before you completely lose your spirit or drive your partner away. Try these tactics and suppress the green-eyed monster within you. Soon, you'll feel all the jealous emotions leaving, and you can have a happy and peaceful relationship with your sweetheart and yourself.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

A flabbergasting new year!
A clean slate on which to write
our AIMS and ASPIRATIONS.

hope:

we all forget past mistakes n

start a new fab beginning

hope

All of life’s best rewards,

hope

your new resolutions gives
greatest satisfactions,
Come from people
People includes you too.

Happy New Year to you...... 

short n sweet love poem..

I make this solemn promise to you:

To be your lover when you need to be loved,
your doctor when you are ill,
your army when you go to war,
your umbrella when life rains down on you,
your rock when you get weary,
your shield when you need defense,
your spirit when you are drained,
your pillow when you need to rest,
your voice when no one can hear you,
your ear when no one will listen,
your comfort when you feel pain,
your hero when you are under duress,
your sunshine when darkness falls,
your answer when questions arise,
your inspiration to overcome obstacles,
your hand to hold when you are frightened,
your kiss that wakes you everyday,
and your "I love you" each and every night.

I am yours... 

fab ;)

i like the feeling when anybody says me

"you are damn lucky to get your guy"

sometimes it happens!

No,i m nt at all related to her,

and you know i don’t know her,

she is just a friendly stranger!
as we all know,we meet people as strangers in busses,trains.

and may be, we may not meet them again..

so i can probably say; its a one time hye and bye scene which is unexpected before.
same happened with me today..

yeaa..
i donno that girl name too..

but we both girls created a friendly bond with in short span of time...

i hope,

that bus-buddy turns on my blog one fine day..
vindhu

lines by a cute lover

darling....

My love,
this is for you.
The day you entered in my life,
started filling with joy $ happiness in my heart.
your love for me is as sacred as worship.

i live this life only for you.
if i achieved something great in my life,
that's nothing but your "LOVE"

You made my life so beautiful and meaningful with out which my life is meaningless n incomplete.
last but not the least
i lived for you,
i live for you,
i will live for you,
and

i'm "YOU"

wat to say....

Thinkingz to write something...
mmrr,ahemm!!!
ya got it ...
i have something to share with you...
today while watching the match in between, i just had a glimpse of an advertisement.

which was shoted in a fantastic and plesant environment...
i avow,it was creative too...
well, that was by docomo(do the new)
advertisement is all about hello tunes and for that reason,the ad was abt a conversation held
between a tamilian daughter and mom...
i guess you people must have noticed it...

do you have guilty pleasures?

hello gals,

long time to write a new post...

well this is not at al boring...

have a nice time while reading these lines

coming to the post,

errr,guilty pleasures?these are the pleasures that sometime,one enjoys despite of feeling guilt.
Radically,feeling guilt can be named as "fear" in us because of people in your ambience.
but we derive pleasure irrespective of guilty.
i really deduce,this feeling is mutual in everyone of us.....think? think?
answer is a big yes undoubtedly from my point of view.
first of all,why you feel depraved?
Different people have different opinions,so if you have done a thing which is opposive with respect to a person who is very close to you,then you will be really guilty by doing that work but at the same time u will derive pleasure from the respective work.

common guilty pleasures can be with respect to food and taste,character,fashion,music etc
like
having bed coffee with out brushing the teeth.
bunking classes and going to movies.
criticising every one and any one who is in higher level and same level to you.
lying with parents in many cases.
gossiping about one friend to another(only in case of girls)
writing blog for name sake sometimes,which im doing now.
but finally,
wow, wrote these many lines!(not sarcastic)
therefore,im feeling guilty to write this blog but lastly derived mammoth pleasure out of it.....
so guys,jus you people enlist the pleasures derived out of guilty things and share them to your friends,
surely time moves speed.

i

today my day started like this....

Are you frustrated? 'Cmon, let it out! We've got some suggestions on how to ease that moment of frustration in a harmless, healthy manner. Here are just some of them:

A. Go for a walk When faced with a frustrating situation, walk away from the situtation. Time and distance, will often help to eliminate the frustraion. The walk allows you to think about how to resolve it

B. Take it outside and yell. Go out the back door, and do a little yelling. We suggest you do it away from others. Afterwards, you will feel much better.

C. Let your feelings out... If you need to cry, then cry.

D. Think.... consider what will ease or eliminate those frustrations. How can you resolve the problem?

F. Talk... let your feelings out to someoneyou can confide in. If it's a frustration about a person, talk with them. Let them know how you feel.

G . Seek help. Use a frined, a family member, or a professional to help you

writing the above lines are very easy right???

absolutely yes because those are the lines written in the absence of vexation.

coming to my view,

my day started with long hour power shut down at my villa and also i must say lack of time for getting ready to go to office,added to the fuel.

in between my brother taking of my snaps in order to preserve the photo and show my family that how myself look in frustrating mood?

my god!!!!that was so nettlesome and indeed frustrating too

in that frustrating situation,if any of your friends turns to you and talk dizzy things?

what will be your reaction?

you feel like kicking him or her right?

in effect,i gripped the same today.....

what so ever,today my day started with frustration but ended with an analogous good mood by writing blog on my vexation.

anyways try to overcome this emotion by doing your favorite work which adds pleasure.

share your comments with personal experiences faced by you, if any.

what about success?

Most of us think success only achievement in monetary terms but in generality,success is said to be achieved when you realise the goals and achieve them.


success is a never ending process,if a person stops at the first sign of his success,he will decline and become stagnant.


success comes to the person who works for it and it doesnt come to the person who only wishes for it..

success is very different from mere achievement as it is concerned with realization of respective goals...

dream the dreams of your life,once dreamt,succeded!

A book which i read yesterday!

Would you seriously take a chance to fly if someone told you you'd die? if you fly.

Thats the quint essence question addressed in the book "A Fortune Teller Told Me."

this book is written by Tiziano Terzani,italian journalist.

once in the year 1976,he step in a famous fortune teller residing in Hongkong who proclaims him

"be aware" and don't fly even for once,since that makes a place for you at graveyard in the year 1993.

Italian journalist generally fly for gathering information on events and writes for the magazines which are taking place all over Asia.

but,he started rethinking again and again as the year 1993 mounted in his life.He decided not to take the advice of fortune teller much to the heart but regrets for doing it many a times.Finally,he decided to take his advice a challenging one and took a resolution to carry out his plans by all mode of transport except plane to make the year an interesting one and also caring the views of the fortune teller to avoid the grave risk which is suppose to happen if he fly.

so,this book describes about the travelling of Tiziano all over the Asia not by plane and all also the experiences of him visiting different countries having different cultures and showing the things he would have never seen had he been travelling by plane.

the ways in which people takes the views of fortune tellers and how that influences respective lives is also presented beautifully.

I found this a really interesting book, Terzani describes wonderfully the colourful, bustling countries he passes through and the colourful and delight characters he meets. He describes an Asia which the average tourist would not see and that point makes the book really interesting. Some of the countries he visits include Cambodia, Thailand, Burma, China, Vietnam, Mongolia and Serbia. He travels by bus, car, train and boat and sees and experiences the local cultures so much more than he would just by passing from one airport to another.Thats the book review all about.

I enjoyed reading it even although I didn't expect to.The criteria for a book to be loved is gratified by this book.so,book lovers enjoy reading it.

bullshit....!

what else i can say about the political stalk which is happening and which has happened in andhrapradesh and hyderabad(so called telangana)

it is a political dramatic event watching by every one at the cost of nothing through media live.

the artists are superstars(jai telangana and samaikyandhra) asking for separate statehood.

these superstars are to the extent hopeless politicians who can reduce the country to a big joke,the joke at which ,the entire world can have a hearty laugh and shed some pity,walk proudly by comparing their nation to ours...

finally the results in andhrapradesh are like this due to this political trauma

KCR:flop hero in the beginning but now a firing star in want of seperate chairmanship for telangana

LAGADAPATI:now he know "how to fast" and word "unity" which he never knew before.

students: enjoying with preparation holidays for the exams which are never conducted.

Buses : got huge hike in fares as they have committed a biggest sin for being as one of the govt properties.

CM: going to doctor check up every day.

common people:

lost faith completely in politics.

No young star is motivated by their parents to join in politics.

sorry for using offensive words but they deserves for the time being!

is your friend a good friend?

what is friendship?

A robust relationship that exists between Two Individuals irrespective of localities,Genders,Religions, economical backgrounds is Termed As friendship.......

what is the primary aspect which should be kept in mind to make a friend a good friend?

Well, according to my perception,the answer to the given phrase is 'Avoiding Hypocrisy'........yes,That's True Indeed!

If we try to Keep Hypocrisy Away then we may have innumerable good friends....

for example "if i go to a friend and say that i got 100 out of 100 in mathematics "then he would reply 'oh!That's great congrats 'but his inner feelings may be different!he may feel why the damn hell this bloody moron got those marks?why din't i?........

This is a kind of sensitive situation where the hypocritical nature comes into vogue .......

The main reason for having hypocritical nature between friends is having 'jealous' ......

in simple words whats the alternative for jealousy?the answer is having 'competitive spirit"......

a friend with jealousy thinks 'why din't i and why did he?'

but a friend with competitive spirit thinks "why can't i,when he did?' hiding the things is termed as hypocrisy....

here are few interesting quotes.........

"How clever you are, my dear! You never mean a single word you say."

All humans are hypocrites; the biggest hypocrite of all is the one who claims to negate that he is an hypocrite.

these are not IDS(internationally developed standards) but these are my perceptions for making a friend a good friend....

if any of these qualities are violated, either of two friends should adjust accordingly with respect to the other with out expecting any thing in return.......

hence adjustment is also a key tool for satisfying my post...............

i have found few friends who are good&am searching for few.

hope u liked it.......

did u find the same qualities in your friends?

comments on this are appreciable........

the sayings,which i love most!

''The shortest answer is doing''

''Don't fall before you're pushed''

''You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do''.

''Ignorance doesn't kill you, but it makes you sweat a lot''...

''If you're not linving on the edge... you're taking up too much room''.

''To ask the hard question is simple''

"Imagination is more important than knowledge"

"The more you think, the more time you have".

''People change and forget to tell each other".

''He who has imagination without learning has wings and no feet''.

''Sense is not common''.

''We think in generalities, but we live in detail.''

Vision without action is merely a dream. Action without vision just passes the time. Vision with action can change the world!

the above collected proverbs which are so simple in words but they all do have great meaning in deeper sense, written by management legends.

they are always stored in my memory archive!

think and try each proverb!

Have a fantastic day!

ooty and coonur beauty!!!!

hmmm..we all went to south india tour for very short five fantastic days.

its not exaggerating to say that we all are gifted to watch the nature left by the god!!!

i really felt that for many moments there!

we visited many places,but according to my view,coonur was the best and wonderful place among all...

not only myself,that hill resort with immense flora and fauna attracted all the holiday lovers,nature lovers,young couples,and of course film directors...

the most adventurous thing while travelling was that coonur has all zig zag roads...that means if you stand in the bus thats equal to dancing probably.

while travelling, my friends started telling about devilish stories which were really happened in coonoor couple of years ago.. so that was an added excitement..

while travelling in coonoor,there were many places which i got in to an expression of astonishment(ahhh!)

like

Laws Falls

The Place is a beautiful picnic spot, situated at Coonoor ..It is just a paradise for Nature lovers.

Dolphin's Nose
The Nose is a unique rock of tremendous proportions which looks like a Dolphin.

ooty

coming to the ooty in tamilnadu

there were few places made us to feel like we literally took to an heaven and get in to the deep wondering situation.

pykara falls

my god,i thought we have missed that place simply for the reason that we were out of the reach of visiting hours.

but there is some thing which you can buy even the visiting hours too..

thats nothing but giving money more than the expected(c........n,credit goes to our QT sir)

whatever,it was very much worthy to visit those falls and vicinity.

sleeping lady

errrrrr,as we all know,girl is a beautiful creature on the earth(boasting myself too)

but if a girl is nature made,the image will be wonderstruck right??wow!

yeah..am talking about the nature created natural girl sleeping peacefully in ooty,tamilnadu..

even though the sight was illusionary,she was so real and glamorous!!

vindhu limns simple quote on nature::::

"nature is not an artificial thing but its an art created by god"

im enjoy it in such a way that even my font color is in green!

buddies enjoy!!!!!

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well to the point,

dreams makes you to feel that you were in different world,environment,situation,circumstances.

indeed,this thing will be easily possible merely with dreaming at cost of nothing..

dreams may be good,bad,scary,funny and combinations what soever not real.

even though it is completly illusionary,

for short term it wipes off sadness and viceversa probably.

sometimes what we dreamt does not relate what we have to dream(what we expect from life)

its so unrelated that it makes you to laugh sometimes and vice versa.

but how dreams?

before sleeping,our mind gets involved in many issues with different people in different periods,so one or other will get stored in our subconscious mind because of that we will dream which is related to our routine situations...

As we all know,dream has the ability to find a solution for a problem which is existing in your life.so dreams are essence
!!!!
actually i got a dream today morning itself which was too good,so dream made me to write about it on my blog.
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